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Wednesday, July 27, 2011

the birth story... with LOTS of photos


July 18th
40 weeks + 4 days

Here you go - the birth story - with all of those details we mamas love to share. If birth stories aren't your thing feel free to just skim the post and enjoy the photos of my beautiful brand new baby boy! I've posted more photos on Google+

As most of you know - this last month has been CRAZY after a tree fell on the house we were renting we were able to quickly move into a wonderful new place... all while I was about 36 weeks pregnant!! After the stress of the move the last weeks before Eli's birth were as difficult mentally & emotionally as they were physically - trying to be patient with huge swollen feet, sleepless nights and contractions most days is so hard to do - even the fifth time around. I was hoping to have a 100% natural childbirth, but Eli never really dropped enough to send me into serious labor - so his due date came and went and I was scheduled to be induced on July 19th.

We went into the hospital at 5am feeling calm, if a little nervous. My mom was at home with our kids still asleep. I was fully prepared to walk back out of the hospital after a few hours to wait a few more weeks since I was only dilated to a 1 at my midwife's office and Eli was very high. I sat in the freezing cold room getting poked and prodded wishing I was back home in my big tub. Thankfully I was already dilated to about a 5 with contractions coming regularly about 20 minutes apart when they started the pitocin, but Eli was still quite high and in minus three station. I tried to get into a more positive frame of mind and hunkered down for what  I thought would be a long labor.

I asked them not to turn up the pitocin and to not break my water. I've been induced both ways - with and without my water and it makes all the difference in the world. They did end up turning up the dose three times just to kick off the contractions but then once my labor went into full swing I could barely catch my breath between contractions so I asked to have the pitocin turned down - they turned it off since I was obviously progressing quickly.


Daniel was an amazing support during the labor. He was so calm and coached me with my breathing - it made all the difference in the world to feel like he was right with me and we were working together.

It was easier to be in a positive frame of mind once I started feeling Eli drop and I had to really breath through the contractions. I remembered sitting up during my (quick, amazingly easy) labor with Emma so I tried that again and that helped a lot. I leaned against Daniel and he reminded me to take deep breaths (since I have a tendency to hyperventilate). It's so important for a pain-medicine free birth to be as relaxed as possible.

All of a sudden during one particularly strong contraction I realized I was starting to want to push! It was one of those "I hope you're ready to catch this baby!" kind of moments. I seriously thought the L&D nurses were going to have to deliver him! I blew through the contractions and my water broke. Finally the midwife got to the hospital and after only two hours of labor they said I could go ahead and push. I wanted to push him out slow and steady but he popped right out after just one push! 
I've posted this one before but it's one of my all-time favorite cell phone pics
I only tore a little bit at he site of the episiotomy I got during the delivery of my firstborn (I so hate having that - I tear there every time.) Getting those two little stitches hurt almost as much as delivering the baby but after a few minutes Eli was nursing and I felt mentally great, physically pretty wobbly and weak for the first few hours and so so happy to not be pregnant anymore.
coming home from the hospital
We only stayed at the hospital for 24 hours. It is SO freaking boring at the hospital and I could not wait to get back home! 
I always forget how big my belly is after I've given birth!
sweet brothers!
Once we got home it was a little bit overwhelming. All of the kids crowded around me wanting to hold their new brother. The littlest two didn't quite get why they couldn't climb all over me to get as close to Eli as humanly possible. Thankfully my mom was there to help and quickly got them all gathered at the table and started on little craft projects.

my mom with all of my kids

So far Eli has a very sweet, calm disposition. He hardly ever cries and is getting on an awesome rhythm of nursing and sleeping. Which has been great, since for the first week I felt like I'd been hit by a truck. I won't even tell you how well he is sleeping at night for fear of jinxing myself. Let me just say that I've been pleasantly surprised. 


Eli has Hydronephrosis of his left kidney so we've had a bunch of doctors appointments and misc. medical insanity to deal with this last week. On Monday Eli had a VCU to rule out reflux. Thankfully that test came back negative for kidney reflux. We have appointments with specialists at the end of the week and hope to have a better idea of what is going on. Right now we aren't worried about it - Eli is really healthy and so far this issue has been presented to us as nothing urgent. I'm just so thankful that they found this on his prenatal ultrasound because I would never have guessed that there was anything wrong with him. 
I think that about does it. I probably forgot something... I think it's time for a nap!

22 comments:

Carla S said...

The picture of your mom with all of your kids melts my heart! What a sweet baby! Congratulations!

Tara said...

what a beautiful baby! Gorgeous family! I am interested in hearing how you mentally prepare for a pain-med free labor! I want to have a no pain med laobr (once I finally get pregnant, I am dealing with some infertility issues)

Tracy said...

What a beautiful family you have!! Congratulations!

mommy of Five said...

birth is so amazing and every story is just a miracle in the making!! i love your photos! makes me want one more!! so don't be offended if i don't come back to visit for a few days=0)

Congratulations on a fast delivery and a very handsome little man!

Lori said...

Thanks so much for sharing. Your new baby is absolutely perfect! I'm in my first trimester of my second pregnancy and seeing that pic of the brothers totally melted my heart!

Nat said...

beautiful birth story and family. I'm a momma that loves to read birth stories. :)

Crystal said...

He is so beautiful!! Congratulations!! The picture of your mother with all of your children is amazing.
Thanks for sharing the birthing journey =)

xx

WyTography said...

Good gracious, you're a champ! I made it 27 hours until I caved and begged for the epidural!

He's so handsome! I just love those close-ups of his sweet face! And the one of him all scrunched up in his bed! Almost makes me want another one...almost.

Ashley Sisk said...

I love these pictures - such a beautiful baby. So I have to know...how many more? :)

Faith said...

Ashley! you're so funny :) Josiah was "supposed" to be the last...

Selena @ Stoneyville said...

Oh my he is soooo cute!!! Almost makes me want to have another one now...... almost.

Shannon said...

I loved reading your birth story! Congratulations he is a cutie! :) I enjoyed all the picts. :)

Joni said...

just one more and you will be caught up with me. *grin*

congrats on your new little bundle. he is adorable.

Jamie Rubeis said...

Congrats! He fits into your family beautifully. Kuddos to you. I dont know how you can keep them coming.

Heather said...

Congratulations!!! Hey, I had a baby boy, Tyler, two days after you. :) I haven't had a chance to update my blog recently because we moved to a new house (so really no one in the blog world knew I was pregnant :). That's cool that you, me, and Lindsay from Snapshots of Happiness all had babies around the same time. :) My first son, Brad, had hydronephrosis but it did clear up. I hope Eli's does, too!

Carol said...

What a beautiful story it is! Thanks for sharing this with us. He's an absolute doll!

Carola said...

Congratulations! Wonderful birth story. Your baby photography is wonderful.
Glad that I stumbled upon your blog.

Nicolasa @ {My}Perspective said...

Congratulations! great story with some beautiful pictures to follow!

Nessa said...

Oh Faith - he is perfect. That photo with your mom and all the little ones is wonderful.

Sarah said...

How awesome. I love that last photo. Sounds like a pretty good birth.

Becky said...

Congratulations!! He is absolutely beautiful and you all seem so happy! :) I love love the photo of your mom and kids. Frame it!!

Glad to see you back here. We've missed you!!

Valeria said...

Lovely post. Congrats on the beautiful baby